Some thoughts I have shared with others that I wish to share with you. Peter Daley
"God is all around me and in me."
Say this at anytime day or night where ever you are. Say it when life is going well or when things are not going so well. When you are going off to sleep.
You can also take it into your dreams at night. If you're having a
nightmare or unpleasent dream, say it. God does not create religions,
churches or shrines, man does, as a way to try to put bricks and mortor
around a belief in God. The prayer above creates a direct personal
contact with God.
"Understand that your internal worth,
preciouseness, essence, is independent of what people say or have
said about you, or how they treat you."
Humans are social creatures, so can get trapped into
thinking what people say or do to them, represents their worth as a
person.
If a loved one dies, he or she wants you to live a happy fullfilling
life. Making yourself miserable for long periods of time, as a demonstration of your love for
them, is not what they want from you to demonstrate your love for them. Get out there and live life to the full. People
get trapped in remorse. They feel that the more miserable they make
themselves, the greater is the demonstration of their love for the deceased.
Here is a poem writtten by my partner Linda that clearly explains this concept.
A MESSAGE FROM THE ONE YOU'VE LOST
I know I left you broken hearted,
That fateful day, when I departed.
You felt your life had also ended,
Your broken heart could not be mended.
I saw your tears, I heard you cry,
You said I was too young to die.
You blamed yourself, now I was gone,
My death, your shoulders rested on.
I was touched, and thrilled you cared,
So much about the life we shared.
I loved you, and you loved me,
Who knew such soul mates we would be?
But now that time has slowly past,
You should be feeling calm at last.
But here you are, a crying still,
Your eyes with many tears still fill.
Come on now, get up my dear,
I'm worried now, and also fear,
You think your love for me will show,
If you grieve long, and hard and slow.
But your love for me appears,
In laughter, smiles, and not just
tears.
You can't see me now, that's true,
But I am always there with you.
I want you to remember me,
But not if it means misery.
My heart is heavy when you're sad,
I feel much better when you're glad.
So live your life, and live it free,
Please don't mourn so constantly.
I'll do the same while were apart,
You are forever in my heart.
And when that fateful day does dawn,
When your own body, sick and worn,
Gives up on life, and your spirit
soars,
You'll know I was, forever yours.
LINDA LAND ( You may freely distribute this poem to anyone you feel it will help.)
If you were the deceased and you could speak to your loved ones, what
would you be saying. Be happy get out there and live life to the full.
I realise you love me and miss me, but making yourself miserable is a
waste of life and pointless. They want you to be happy and enjoy life!
Your thoughts are not you.
Thoughts represent possiblities that you can choose from and direct
your energy to. If you don't direct energy to a thought, emotionally,
it becomes nothing more than a cloud in the sky drifting by. So,
if your have a thought that is unpleasant, just let it drift by, be
passive to the thought. If you notice you are starting to react
emotionally or psychically to the thought say "STOP" relax, and refocus your
thinking to something else that is positive and enjoyable.
God must think that creativity is extremely important, because he/she has gone to an awful lot of trouble creating reality!
The purpose of life is to learn to express your personal energy creatively and lovingly! The
happiest people are those who are focusing their personal energies into
the world creatively and lovingly. Isn't that what God is doing.
For society to function fairly and for the good of all, its citizens
have to realize that individual rights have to be balanced with social
responsibility!
Rich or poor, famous or unknown, powerful or
weak, the only important valuable thing that counts in life is
how loving and compassionate you are to people, and all living
creatures around you!
Every living cell in your body reacts instantly to the emotion you associate with a thought. You have the power to change your thinking.
The secret to happiness is very simple, make the choice to be happy!
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